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"Extraordinary" has become exhausting

We were told to dream big, think positive,
manifest more, achieve more, become more.
We did everything right. We built the careers, set the goals, read the books, bought the planners. Yet somehow, it still doesn’t feel right. "Extraordinary" has stopped being inspiring and started being exhausting.

Measuring up

Can anyone measure up to the bar set by idealized online life? When we mistake performance for real life, we curate our true selves into oblivion.

Asking why

We need to question our own motivation. The joyful drive to master a skill, to create, to compete, to contribute, can be hijacked by forces that don't serve us.
It looks like ambition, but often it’s just anxiety in disguise.

Opting out

Our cultural inheritance can be questioned, unlearned, and replaced. This is not the pursuit of less. It’s the practice of "enough".

Being your own guide

When you define your "enough", your life finally starts to feel like yours again.
Are you ready to chart your own path?

Launching in 2026:

Our 12-week course is called
Leaving “Extraordinary” Behind.
It’s not about fixing yourself. It's not about choosing "less" It’s about unhooking from the performative noise that surrounds us.

Between now and then, we’ll be sharing the good stuff: quizzes, micro-journals and other small tools that can make big shifts. Subscribe to our mailing list to stay in the loop and get everything first.

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